It’s a business!! Repeat this to yourself, “I’m starting a SEPARATE ENTITY called a business”.
Repeat this as often as you need to until you understand that sentence. Many people treat a business as a personal checking account backup.
IT ISN’T.
Your first, primary, most important, overarching job is making money for THE BUSINESS. Then, if you do, as the business manager, you decide what value you have and compensate yourself accordingly.